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Your first hearing, step by step
A first hearing is usually short. What happens in the room is mostly decided by what you bring.
Bartholomew Fenwick, Director and supervising attorney5 min read
Before the day
Read every paper you were served and mark the date and time on it. If you need an interpreter, an accommodation for a disability or a different day, ask the court clerk in writing as early as you can.
What to bring
- Photo ID
- Every court paper you have received
- Pay stubs for the last two months and a recent bank statement, if money is involved
- The children’s insurance information, if support is involved
- A pen and a notebook
In the courtroom
Arrive early, because security lines are slow. Silence your phone. Stand when the judge enters and when you speak. Say “Your Honor,” and answer only what you are asked.
What the judge is deciding
At a first hearing the judge usually sets a schedule, orders documents exchanged or asks you to try mediation. A final decision is rare.
After the hearing
Write down what was ordered before you leave the building. Ask the clerk when the written order will arrive, and put the next date in your phone.